A charismatic man. How do I become one?
Charisma is a label under which hides a wide range of personality traits. Charismatic people are attractive to others, it touches emotionally, can lead and inspire.
What are the qualities of all the charismatic people?
First of all, such people feel very comfortable in society. They are not tight, even relaxed.
Pay attention to others, most people, being in society, feel a certain level of discomfort and can relax only in the family or with friends, while confident personality everywhere feel at ease.
Charismatic people are in the present moment. They are not immersed in their thoughts, memories or dreams, when you interact with others. They are fully present here and now.
This is very important because only the total presence allows you to give the most adequate response that most closely match the date in its manifestations, to be natural and spontaneous.
A simple way to return to the present moment: focus on your breathing, feeling your body, or on objects and people that surround you.
This is one of the main leadership qualities.
How to achieve deep fundamental confidence? You must go against his fears. Doing this again and again, making mistakes and moving on, you will discover the simple truth that failure or failure will not kill us.
Stay present in this moment as disturbing memories of past negative experiences and fear of future consequences.
Not closed, it creates barriers between you and the outside world. Instead, put the focus outside, keep enthusiasm and interest in what is happening.
Stay free from the opinions of others. You make the best of what is in the moment, or what you think is right; do not try to control the reaction of other people, give them the right to think what they want.
Communication on a deep level
Telling something to the listener, feel the direction of his attention. Try to convey your idea so that people could perceive, not just to speak in his presence.
Look, pay attention to what is left unsaid. The deep connection between people occurs when people don’t just hear spoken words, but also understand the true needs of the other, reading the emotions, fears and hopes.
Communication at a high level involves a full interchange that exists between close friends.
Charismatic people are able to raise emotions in others, because they convey their feelings, ideas and plans on a high energy note. They thinking clearly and plainly, they use their voice and body language for effective transmission of your message.
Be interested, open-minded, interesting
«Being genuinely interested in people, you can make more friends in two months than in two years trying to interest people» is a classic saying by Dale Carnegie.
If, at first glance, people do not cause you interest, you should make an initial effort to open up a new way, because often we see what we want to see. Starting to pay attention to people, you will find more and more reasons to be sincere and genuine interest.
How to be positive, if you have persistent difficulties unsettle?
Not to take things too seriously, not to strain beyond measure. Stay relaxed, spend time fun and interesting, instead of focusing on the trouble. Log in to the feeling of abundance, comfort and prosperity.
And don’t forget to smile.
To be charismatic is to make others feel better in your presence, to give others the feeling of freedom, success, sincere relationships, inspiration and openness. And the secret is that to give people only what he possess.
Be filled with these qualities and share them with others!