Your Council

manygoodtips.com_15.09.2014_wrTq1B0araC5UYou used to get into a situation where you need advice, but more often asked advice from you. If you need help and want to know your opinion, then there is no choice: will have to give the man some advice.

Your friend came in the night in my room and drunk. You’re sitting on the armrest of the sofa in shorts and sleepy. Your attempts to understand what is happening, is useless. Now you have to include the brain and give a sober assessment of not only events, but a situation in which one asks you to understand.

So what is good advice? Why do they have to ask, why do they give? Let’s try to understand.

1. You sound like a lawyer

Wow, sir, you are so not biased! Well, if you give real advice, which aims to help others to understand the situation and not just tell him what he wants to hear. If you’re not an asshole, you will be reliable, because, most likely, from your advice determines the fate of the other. Of course, if you are real friends, not just classmates, you would never think to give worthless advice to this person. So, there is nothing to worry about.

On the other hand, when you seek the advice of a friend, you will be sure that he will be objective and not biased.

2. A minimum of emotions

When you give advice, you don’t feel any emotions if this situation does not apply to direct you, of course. This condition gives you the ability to deliver adequate and close to the truth assessment of the situation, which came to you friend.

And if you come to for advice is you, sober and adequate assessment can cool you off and possibly put your nerves in place.

3. Concentration

Before you come to, you need to get your brain back in place. Most often you can’t do it yourself, so you need help a true friend. Is the one from whom you ask for advice, should monitor the degree of instability of your mood.

While you’re emotionally unstable, you need a man who will lay it out for you. Later, you’ll still be laughing over their hysteria and snot. But before that still have to live. Importantly, now you have all ustakanilos.

4. Calm

If you have a vivid imagination and a minimum of four cups of coffee, then you are doomed. You never will find peace. Every time you come to feed, and hysteria will begin with a Bang. Yes, there is a type of men and women, alas.

In short, you’ll definitely need a counselor, who will make fun of your too bright and inappropriate expression of my imagination, but it is necessary to choose the man you can’t hit. In this case it is easier to give advice than to accept them, don’t you every time you say, «And if… and if that». In short, you’re not stupid hysterical, and will give reliable responses.

5. Give advice to yourself

You already know what you need, just Pat us and his friend’s nerves. You already know what the Council are waiting. And if you do not get what you want, then get angry and protest. The problem is that you for some reason are afraid to do it and try to shift the responsibility for one. There is nothing wrong.

You just want to be sure that if your decision is incorrect, you can easily shift the responsibility on one. For this you need advice. Your friend probably will understand it and will push you to the right door.

Don’t be afraid to ask for advice and he willingly helps his friend understand the situation. You are able to give advice, but to your friend it will help more than you think. That is why so important tips.