Why we can’t give up porn

Let’s say you’ve already tried to give up porn, and you have failed. Several times. Well, you’re not alone. Hundreds of thousands of men have tried and will try to do the same. It is unlikely you will meet one man that has not watched porn in over three years.

Studies show that our brain has the ability to return to the condition in which it was before pornosvideos. Why some studies do not explain an interesting and poignant fact: if you’re back within a certain amount of time watching porn, you’re addicted, and quickly.

This is a sign that you quit porn — full indifference to him. This means that you can watch porn without having any sexual reaction. You may perceive porn differently — starting with disgust and ending with sympathy for the porn actress. You can control your response to one hundred percent.

To understand why we can’t give up porn, for a start, let’s formulate the signs of porozovskoe:

  • prevoznemogaya you desire or even the need to continue to watch porn and to have access to it by any means;
  • over time you’re watching more porn and discover new types;
  • psychological and physical dependence on the effects of porn;
  • you feel less interested in society.

Porozovskoe is both psychological and physical dependence at the same time: at any time you have an overwhelming desire to find and view porn. If you do not understand the reason for their porozovskoe, it will never end, no matter how much you tried to quit.

Many guys trying to quit porn find yourself another source of dependence, when you decide to abandon the first — no difference, a year or a month. A worthy replacement for is porn prostitutes, sex over the Internet, Masturbation and erotic stories. This proves that the result of the non-porn start some kind of compensation mechanism.

Porozovskoe appeared not porn, and because of you, your difficulties and personal experience. When do you often watch porn, it’s nice; you forget about the problems and reality in General. Perhaps this is the problem.

How is porozovskoe

1. First — an enjoyable experience, and you avoid everything unpleasant and crave for pleasant sensations and find them watching porn. Addiction starts when the experience ceases to bring you pleasure, but instead to accept, you increase its intensity: watching porn more often, looking for more extreme options. A lot of them: violent scenes, the subject of rape, gay-porn (and you’re not gay) or even necrophilia.

2. Porozovskoe become a way of life: repetitive, habitual. Dependent on porn men and women (and it happens) lose their ability to set goals and achieve them. When you don’t understand (or you just think) that your efforts will be rewarded, you stop trying and give yourself the only available award porn.

3. You have a new life style: are you looking for porn was on porn sites, and everything else, including family and friends departs on the second plan. As soon as your computer sits another man, you turn on paranoia: what if you get caught? You’re harder to interact with people, you can’t just communicate with the woman and to refrain from fantasies about anal sex with her. You use prostitutes to act like porn actors in the films.

4. Finale — clash of the new way of life grafted into your childhood values. As a result, you feel the self-loathing and guilt for viewing porn. The vicious circle is closed: wine — a pleasant feeling of watching porn is the blame for this — and so on without end.

It turns out, porozovskoe is obsessive-compulsive disorder, which affects physical, emotional, psychological and social aspects of life. It also means that there is no one proven way to fix it. If you want to get rid of pornosvideos, it is necessary to look at it from three points of view:

  • Porozovskoe changes your personality and character so gradually that you have no idea how much has changed. First, you must understand that porn came into your life as compensation. So, it is possible to. You have to understand that you can be happy without the help of porn.
  • To get rid of pornosvideos, it is necessary to cut the root of those problems that trigger the compensation mechanism (in our case with porn). You have to understand what you’re missing, and fix the problem. Otherwise, how many did not try, you will not be able to quit.
  • You need the support. It’s always easier.

Many miss the first and second step and immediately move on to the third, not knowing what caused the addiction. This leads to long cycle «left-started-gave up-started» and replacing one bad habit with another.

To get rid of pornosvideos, it is necessary to find its root. It lies deep inside you. Getting rid of root, you won’t have a reason to constantly return to adult films. By and large, it’s only your problem. So you can permanently eliminate the need to watch porn and feel happier. The thought that you got rid of the dependencies, and took life into their own hands, already makes you happy, isn’t it?

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