What to do if your friend hitting on other dudes
Hello, dear manygoodtips.com! I read you for a long time, I really like the way you work and hopefully help me solve the problem. So, I have a girlfriend, she says that it is always someone drove: her friends at work (she works as a waitress). I don’t know what to do, scared to lose her… Guys I need your help… Sorry for such problem to bother you, but I would be very grateful if you could help me. Thank you.
And Hello to you, dude! Grateful for your question and try to answer it.
The first thing I would like to say is the fact that your concern is a very common thing. This is not surprising, because if you have a beautiful girl, you have to be nervous because of her beauty. You’re not crazy and will not, I hope to follow her every move and read her correspondence. This will repel any man.
Generally, it can really catch on, but if she works as a waitress, it is certainly the eternal problem of such a profession. Ask any waitress – she confirmed. But they are unlikely to apply to this account to their children, so it is a common hazard of the profession.
In any case the whole situation we don’t know, but if the girl told you about it, here is the conclusion: there is a chance that she just wants her taken care of. You should pick her up from work, in order to feel calmer. You must make it clear to your girlfriend that you trust her, yet Express their concerns. To clarify: this should not be a conflict situation, of course, if you have no good reason for this. And certainly should not forbid her to go out with my friends and things like that, you’ll see that kind of shit may turn against you.
Also very interesting, as the girl perceives the harassment? Just mentions them in passing in conversation or complains? Maybe a little bragging about them? Should be afraid only if it delivers all this inconvenience and interferes with life. If it is periodically subjected to the «rolled up» from certain people, then tip: ask that person if he works with her, what their relationship. If she has a friend who is constantly running around, you really need to talk to him, if you know what I mean.
Most importantly, do not indulge in jealousy, and not to scandals. You may be surprised to discover that the man was just looking for you have support or it was awkward to hide from you what with her trying to get acquainted. If you all says herself, it is hard to imagine under what circumstances she will begin to cheat on you, if that’s what you’re worried about.
In any case, you need to be more relaxed about these things. Treat your girlfriend carefully, learn to expose her shoulder, to compliment, to pay attention, and everything else just depends on what it is, not you. The worst thing you can do is to make a scene in the spirit of Brazilian soap operas, but we know that you do not eat.
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