The 10 most common mistakes when meeting with the girls

mistakes when Dating

We all think that you know how to communicate with people. We can at any time start a conversation with a girl and not be rebuffed or humiliated.

But sometimes it’s just not the case. Exactly. So today we will give you some information that will help you. We have collected in one place the most common mistakes that spoil any attempt to meet girls.

What’s the point? If she looks you in the eye and it is better for you, continue in the same spirit, and if she hides her eyes and says only single-syllable words, this option doesn’t suit you, pass by. And in any case, don’t lose confidence: the next time you need luck.

1. You immediately begin to defend

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Irony: the mistake many men in what they started, already fearing that it will take the most unpleasant turn. It is not always so, but once you pereklinivaet, and you have not starting the conversation, already beginning to play in my head the worst-case scenario and to find solutions to problems that haven’t even appeared, and may not appear. If you look at any woman as a sort of test as the simulator for testing strategies of seduction, you went on the road, which will get you nowhere. It is immediately noticeable, girlfriends, this behavior is not like this, and not all that crap that you spend too much time in my head. Forget what you heard, stay away from that girl and don’t think this kind of games with points, where the winner is the one who hooked up with more women. Women (cute and cuddly, with whom spending time is a pleasure) always don’t mind talking to a normal guy who’s not trying to be cool (typically for this reason, you’re starting to look boring).

2. Meet in the wrong place

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Not every place is suitable for Dating — you better have a good think about the geography of their adventures, since not all areas are equally good. There is no point to start a conversation with a girl if she is in a situation of potentially not has to flirt: then you condemn yourself for failure. A textbook example of a place — the gym, when the level of testosterone in your blood through the roof, and you feel that at this moment you’re all done. It can push you to make the acquaintance of a girl you think is cute, but the place will only complicate your task. In gyms there are girls — usually they fall under the hot hand, and, moreover, they are currently not experiencing itself in all its glory. The prospect of talking to a stranger is usually somewhere at the very end of his list of priorities. But the relaxed atmosphere of the bar contributes to this relaxed communication, which should not be afraid of calving. Not only the bars, friends of friends, various courses, clubs — a great way to meet a girl with similar interests.

3. To spoil someone else’s company

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To go to unwind — nice, dance is nice, drink is nice. These are the main reasons for which girls can hang out all evening exclusively in the circle of his friends and not wanting to know anything about you and your intentions. On a friendly party extra people are not needed. Of course, sometimes you catch the General mood and fit, but sometimes you forget to say, you pay little attention, and therefore, you’d better go, anyway, you’re not welcome here.

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4. To be too drunk

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Women love to have men all was under control. Most women will not like it if you are not able to cope even with their own mind and body, what is there to speak about the need to break up your drunken brawls and carry you on his shoulder. Usually drunk dude easily switches attention from one friend to another, not listening to what he said and generally annoyed. Until you got a relationship with the girls is much better not to get drunk. Anyway, better not to get drunk.

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5. The build of a pick up artist

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No offense, dude, but all what I learned using the techniques of pickup, it’s that they’re useless. Nothing is more greasy, boring and ugly than the guy who uses the worn-out speech to hit on her friend. Why? It shows that you lack confidence. It shows that you have literally been reading different advice about how best to approach the girls (of course, you never admit it) and that you can’t act without someone else’s pointer. What would you do, better just say Hello and introduce yourself.

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6. Don’t ask questions

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The worst thing you can do man is to approach the friend and start talking purely about myself. If you want to talk about their incredible steepness, perhaps the reason that it does not exist in nature. The girls are bored by such talk, they immediately begin to think of you as insecure and uninteresting. If you ask a friend a question about her life, it shows you’re interested in, what you easily interact — and this is a plus.

If you don’t ask questions, for girls it is a signal that you’re too self-involved — this implies that it will never be interesting to you. I think the girlfriend will be amazed if you’re alone. for others to buy her drinks, and then order a bottle of champagne to the table? If you’re talking only about how hard you have to work (you hold an important position), the effect is quite the opposite. Who puts before the girl all the cards on the table to her interest, it quickly becomes boring for her.

7. To talk more with her friend than with her

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Need to be mandatory to pay more attention to the girl that interests you. If you spend all your energy on the conversation with her friend (too nervous, afraid to talk to a girl you like, or girlfriend more easy to communicate), which is a logical consequence? The girl will think you’re more interested not in her but in her companion, and cease to pay attention to you. Come on, work on yourself. Besides, there’s nothing sadder for a girl than half the night talking to guy, then to find that it is not interested in it, and her friend.

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8. To get into personal space

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Personal space is absolutely a real thing that should be respected. Its radius depends on where you are in the supermarket, for example, you cannot come closer than as in conversation with a stranger. If you’re in a club or bar where people drink and relaxing, this space is reduced, but nonetheless too close to feel your breath — it’s weird and even threatening.

General rule: when you meet a girl, just repeat the same moves that she does. Wait till he comes closer, to make it easier, and followed her example.

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9. Not know whether she is in the relationship

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The worst story is to spend 20 minutes of your and her time trying to look after a girl who is already Dating someone. As soon as possible try to find out if she’s seeing someone else. If so, immediately throw up. Sometimes girls don’t talk about it directly and bluntly, because they like the attention, so ask her questions — couldn’t hurt.

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10. Too focus on her reaction

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Often we are too keen, assessing her reaction to us, and forget about the conversation. Everything is clear: it is very difficult to keep track of everything. But if you constantly think that should tell you how to put your hands, it shows. And it’s embarrassing. So start a conversation with a girl must be so, it’s like talking with an old friend — easily, with interest to listen, to react naturally. Or another way to relax: if you succeed, you will go on a date — and if not, you have nothing to lose.