Be fucking up life

Be fucking up life

For the sake of.com.ua_5.06.2014_x0u5CXCLSBBqVQuestion:

Hi, I’m 19.

Lately intensively studied in the University, today staged a day of rest and caught myself thinking that the profession is not interested in me (a programmer), you could do this all day, but just don’t want no passion.

In recent years, actively communicate with a few girls. One smart, well-read, to chat, to philosophize; the second want sex from her, nothing more; and third, you can communicate, but it is not very comfortable. All three are cute, but not beautiful. Strap I have much too high — should be neat, smart, ambitious, elegant, beautiful and, of course, sincerely to respect and genuinely support me in everything.

Lost my bro. He ceased to respect me, I’m not more interesting, they do not trust. For example, the money trust me can easily, and to share spiritual joy — not. Maybe thinks I’m stupid, but it seems it is not.

Three problems: the profession, a friend, a girl. Now’s the moment when you already have something for him, but, looking back, I see that I have nothing.

Thank you.

Answer:

Dude, where is the question?

You told us about their problems, we had sympathy, now lay out to you our opinions on your problems.

First, the profession. If realized that the profession doesn’t suit you, it’s best to leave it as soon as possible to avoid wasting precious time on learning what you don’t need. However, before you quit, I have to think whether the thing you’re no longer interested or is it a moment of weakness? A hasty and rash decision will cost you a broken life and disappointments. Our summary of the first part: to leave University normal, if it’s an informed decision and you have an alternative, what you want to do instead of programming.

Secondly, one. It is difficult to decide how you be, not knowing the details. What happened to you? If good reason to end your friendship no, it means that you simply disperse in different directions — it happens in life. People cease to be each other interesting, they are new acquaintance, they find their way in life is absolutely normal and healthy trend. Sad to be in the position of someone who has been outgrown and left behind, but you probably also left men behind me and they’ve accepted it. But just in case, just to be sure ask him if he holds a grudge and doesn’t hold you on a grudge that you didn’t even notice.

Third, girl. If you have in mind thoughts on «want — not want» means «do not want». When you meet the friend you want to be around you immediately will understand. There will be no need to weigh the «pros» and «cons», it is a priori out of competition with other ladies from your environment. Meanwhile, you’re acting like a child, vykovyrivat soup boiled onions, saying that you can eat your brew, but without the nasty onions. Favorite soup is eaten whole, while it is still hot — and the girlfriend no doubt. So wait and don’t waste your time on controversial options.

Ask your question wording manygoodtips.com

Понравилась статья? Поделиться с друзьями:
Добавить комментарий

;-) :| :x :twisted: :smile: :shock: :sad: :roll: :razz: :oops: :o :mrgreen: :lol: :idea: :grin: :evil: :cry: :cool: :arrow: :???: :?: :!: